1. You start a mirror
Takes about a minute. You get one private link to share.
Anonymous · 3 questions · ~2 minutes
What your friends actually see when they look at you.
Mirror Test asks the people who already know you to answer three short, anonymous questions. Their answers are synthesized into one honest portrait of who you are right now — written in their language, not yours.
Make your mirror → Read an example
2. Friends answer 3 questions
Anonymous, fast, no account, no log-in. They write in their own words.
3. You unlock the mirror
An AI synthesizes their answers into one portrait — gifts, contradictions, blind spots, the line they keep repeating.
Why this works better than asking directly.
If you ask a friend "how am I really doing?" you'll hear something kind, vague, and almost useless. Anonymity changes the answer. So does asking three structurally different questions about you in their experience instead of asking them to grade you. We wrote about why direct feedback fails structurally, what 1,000 anonymous answers actually said, and the ethics of letting AI write a portrait of you.
Common questions
How private is it? What does the AI actually do with the answers? Can my friends see each other's responses? Full answers on the FAQ page.